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Thursday, December 25, 2025

Christmas 2025


Quite a nice holiday, actually.

Om went and picked up Josh to ensure that he would show up. Steve called and we did gift opening with phone commentary. He's done that the past few years, but he seemed to really get into it today with me sending him pictures of the various gifts. So, that was really fun.
christmas tree


After the successful experiment a few days ago, I made a real batch of the low cal/carb cinnamon rolls. These turned out even better. I learned a few things the first time.
cinnamon rolls


The table looks good. But wait... five plates?
table set for Christmas dinner


Yup! Doug and Cathy were going to go spend the day with one of their daughters. But all the kids are really sick, so they are waiting a few days. That was perfect- they came and ate with us. We had ham, mashed potatoes, green beans, cranberry relish, and a low-cal chocolate dessert. That list sounds impressive, but we really kept it simple. It's also a meal that most everyone will eat.
Christmas dinner


Cathy brought a game we all played. It's called Marbles and Jokers. It's very similar to Sorry, but it will work for three to eight players, and there is more strategy to it. Doug won if anyone cares. The board is very ingenious. Each player choses a color and you hinge the sections together with a 2-D ball and socket joint to create the track.
people playing marbles and jokers


We tried to get a family picture. Well. Josh says this is his smiling face. We couldn't find a location where the light didn't bounce off my hair. Om looks pretty good.
family picture


As is so true in most holiday homes, the day started with cleaning up the kitchen so that I could make another kitchen mess. The second one is partially cleaned up. Om took care of all the wrappings (most are fabric and bags, so it's just a matter of folding them and putting back in the box. The only paper wrapping here is on things someone else brought in.)

Cathy gave me a jigsaw puzzle. Actually, I have six new ones. I may have to start one this week. She also brought some pumpkin bread and sweet snacks. That bag of mint M&Ms got opened and devoured.

I'll share some of our loot another day. Right now, I'm beat. And too full of food.

See Food Coma

Wednesday, November 12, 2025

Cornelius White Sr. 1682-1755


Born: March 28, 1682 Marshfield, MA

Second child of Daniel and Hannah (Helen?) White.

Married: Hannah Randall on May 22, 1706

Children: Lemuel, Cornelius Jr., Paul, Joanna, Daniel, Gideon, Benjamin.

Died: January 21, 1755 in Marshfield, MA

Buried in Centre Marshfield Cemetery, Marshfield, Plymouth County, Massachusetts

He is listed as a shipbuilder in The Mayflower Descendant magazine.

Cornelius bought a pasture and orchard from his brother John, and also a valley pasture and uplands. All the property was in Marshfield. He left all this plus 14 pounds to Cornelius, Jr. His estate was valued at 1375 pounds, and included a fishing boat, a ferry boat, and outdoor tools.

Since Cornelius is listed as a shipbuilder, and that he lived in Scituate, I am making the assumption that is where he worked on the ships. Scituate is located on the Atlantic coast between Boston and Cape Cod. It was a major shipyard from possibly as early as 1646 (records vary) to 1872.

Not sure of the date of this photo, but it's certainly from the 1800s, long after Cornelius died. But it possibly looks similar to the 1700s.
Scituate Harbor 1800s


But the only other related graphic I can find is a hand-drawn map of the harbor from the 1700s. The attached key to 58 numbered locations reads like a list of places in a fantasy game: Light House, Cedar Point, Old Dr. Jeffer's House, Gun House, Tin Shop, Stables, etc.
drawing of scituate harbor


Cornelius was Daniel's second son. As such, I guess he did not inherit the family farmland and orchards, but chose a trade as shipbuilder.

From here on down for two generations, I don't think I'm going to be able to find a lot of detailed info about the people. But we shall see.

I think discipline as relates to getting back into the Klondike game isn't even on the table. Hopefully, I was just spending lots of time today as I tried to get back into remembering how to play. But I'm afraid I can't ration my playing time very well. I really like it.

Nevertheless, I managed to get some editing and computer work done. The snow is all gone and the sun was shining this afternoon.

See his father Daniel White

Monday, September 8, 2025

All Those Recreated Pictures


This is basically a duplicate of a post from 15 years ago. For some reason, Facebook has been serving me dozens of those pictures where people re-create family pictures from their youth or childhood. I don't have siblings. The few cousins I know of are too scattered and distant, and the pictures too few. But I did make one attempt.

I tried to re-imagine a family classic a long time ago, and it turned out pretty well, so I thought I'd share it again. The first picture is my grandmother, Emily M. Rowe, taken around 1940. She was a very active and athletic woman in her younger days- canoeing, hiking, playing tennis in bloomers (shocking!), riding horses, etc. She is snowshoeing here on snowshoes made in Maine by Native Americans, although she wasn't as active by that time in life.


Granny on Snowshoes


I still own the same sweater, snowpants and snowshoes. Actually, the boots may be around somewhere, but I didn't try to find them for the re-creation, and I haven't seen them since. But I don't exactly remember throwing them away.


Joan on Snowshoes


The bulk of my day was taken up with getting a new phone, getting it set up, and getting my apps working on it. I MAY have everything in working order. Probably not, but I can hope. Then, just in case I wasn't irritated enough, I went grocery shopping.

Came home and made a really yummy apple-cranberry coleslaw. That will last me a few days. Picture taken before I mixed it up. The dressing has dijon mustard and a little honey. It's really good!
apple cranberry coleslaw


So, I didn't manage to do much on my work projects today, just a little. Forgot to tell you I actually wrote 218 words in Vacation from Dead Mule Swamp yesterday. I'll see if I can keep that going.

See Can You Go Back Again?

Sunday, August 10, 2025

Something Else from Frances


As part of my current cleaning/sorting project, there have been a few surprises. Mostly, I've been moving and sorting boxes of things that I knew the contents. However, this was a shock. In fact, I'd forgotten it existed until I saw it. Also, in the same odd location was the missing autumn tablecloth I wanted to use last fall. It's now waiting to be washed. Everything else from that pile is now clean. I think it was a collection of things that had to be washed by hand, although the tablecloth should not have been in that category.

The rediscovered item is a quilt made by my Grandma Leary, Frances Bullivant Leary. Here's the story.

For at least 70 years, the quilt has been covered with a sort of drab duvet cover. It completely enclosed the original quilt and was tied to it with crochet thread- a commonly used product to tie quilts.
old fabric


But even before I put this away (who knows when?) to be washed, that thin cover was filthy and coming apart from dry rot.

So, this week, I have carefully washed and dried the fabric and removed the rotting duvet.

This is what was underneath.
log cabin quilt


A closer view reveals the classic log cabin pattern. The center square in each block is red, but the rest of the fabric strips seem to be totally random.
log cabin quilt


I have no idea when this was made. All the stitching in the original quilt is done by hand, although the seams in the duvet are machine sewed. It has to be over 80 years old. I'm 77. Grandma Leary died when I was 4, and she certainly wasn't in good enough health to be making anything like this when I was small. I only remember it as the "brown quilt" in the back bedroom.

The quilt itself consists of the pieced blocks which were each sewn to an individual backing, and then tied to a quilt back as a third layer. There is no batting or additional fill. The stitching is not of the highest quality. The stiches are very even, but they are somewhat coarse. Tiny stitches were a mark of quality in a handmade quilt. (My other grandmother and her mother made beautiful quilts.)
hand stitching on a quilt


I seem to have a vague memory of being told that Grandma Leary was ashamed of the quilt, and she had covered it with the other cloth. Not sure if this is true.

The backing is two different fabrics. Most of it is a light brown plaid. But at some point, Frances decided to make the quilt larger. She added two rows of blocks to the long edge and one to the end. The backing for the added parts is a light brown print.

I sort of speculate that the quilt might have been made for Dad, and when he grew to be six feet tall it needed to be made bigger. But this is pure guesswork. It's interesting how the extra pieces were added on. The finished edges of each were whip-stiched together.
back of antique quilt


I took a look at a lot of the strips of fabric to see if there were any at all that I recognized. I thought that was going to be a hard "no." But then this strip caught my eye- the black and white design with sort of clusters of double flowers. I can't seem to pull up a memory of what it was- an apron? a pillow cover? But I'm sure there were still many things made of old fabrics in use when I was a child. We were living in what had been Grandma Leary's house, and nobody threw anything away until it was beyond repair. My parents lived through the Depression.

And as a result, here we are 96 years after the Crash of '29, and I'm still living that way. I feel it is something of a minor victory when something like a towel has gone from bathroom use, to junk towel use (like for spills or toilet repair), to rag box, and finally comes apart to the point where it goes in the fabric recycle bin.
quilt block


You can see a picture of Frances Bullivant Leary as a young woman at the link below.

In other news: I am closing in on completion of this sorting and cleaning project. Of course, they are never-ending. In addition to all my stuff, I have two generations and more of things from both sides of my family stored in boxes, trunks, tubs, etc.

And this brings me to the closing thought. Almost all of those things come from my mother's side of the family. From Grandma Leary I have the Hoosier Cabinet, now this quilt, and the Double Daffodils. Probably a few other things I'm not recalling at the moment, but not many. A couple of items have been accidently destroyed, so they are gone forever. I cherish the few I have, not because they are better than all the things from Mom's family, but because they are so few.

See Dad's Adoptive Parents

Thursday, February 13, 2025

Another Almost

 I'm pretty sure I've never told you how Om and I got engaged. It's a story full of "almosts." It was 1968. It was almost Valentine's Day (Feb 13). The moon was almost full (the next night). He almost had a ring (we were having a composite made with stones from each of our mothers. Incidentally, I hardly ever wore it because it has two pearls and they are just too soft for the lifestyle my hands have always been involved in). He drove me to the local junkyard (yes, indeed), in his almost car (a British Ford of some kind that quite an adventure) where we parked and I officially said yes. At least that part wasn't an almost.

The next day I came down with the flu and spent most of a week in the college infirmary.

That was 57 years ago. We've always celebrated Feb 13 more than our actual anniversary which is in August. Mostly because for most of our life together our summers have been so busy it wasn't even funny.

I wanted to show you a picture of some special Valentine cookies I made for the occasion long ago. But, sigh... I can't find it. It's got to be just staring me in the face in the photo albums, but I'm not seeing it. So I did scan a picture you've never seen of us before. This is 1981, near our 13th Anniversary.


I keep recycling this one. But I don't think there is a picture of us taken together between February and August 1968.

1968 wedding

And this is a couple of years ago, but pretty much the current condition.

gray haired couple

Think we'll make three more?

See Almost Full

Saturday, January 18, 2025

Another Tidbit about Jack

 Today was better. I can stay upright for about 20 minutes, and then need to lie down for a while again. My brain doesn't feel like it's running on all cylinders yet. I can almost see enough to read.

I have learned a very interesting tidbit about Grandpa Leary (Dad'a adoptive father). You may remember that he was a second-generation Irish farmer. photo label

This info comes from a book written about a settlement about 6 miles from where Jack lived, but this was apparently significant enough news that it made it into the book. On June 10, 1906 (so this was before they adopted my dad), "Someone stole all Mr. O’Leary’s fowl and chicks, Buff Orpingtons, a large English breed." It doesn't say how many chickens.

This is what Buff Orpingtons look like.


There nust have been a local chicken rustler since a week later, at a farm about 4 miles from the Leary's, another 40 chickens were taken. It's not like the sudden appearance of 60+ dressed chickens for sale in that rural area wouldn't be noticed. You have to wonder what happened to them. Were they butchered and quickly carted to a city?

Anyway... I think this is an amazing little detail from Jack's life as a farmer.

See The Jack that Built the House

Wednesday, January 8, 2025

When I was Cute

 Today was a day I'd rather not repeat. Have a picture of me taken right around the time of my second birthday. Don't know exactly, but spring 1950. This was sent to me by one of cousin Jean's sisters (so also a third cousin, although I'm not really in touch with her)
toddler picture 1950


The headache was still awful this morning. I went and got Excedrin Migraine because it has different ingredients. You may recall me saying that I really hate taking any new medication because I'm never sure how I will react.

Well, within 15 minutes I was so strung out I called Cathy and asked if she could take me to Urgent Care if I wasn't better in a half hour. I was moderately better then, but ended up going to bed. A couple of times, I thought I might still need to get medical attention, but am quite a bit better now. The headache is only a dull throb instead of constant stabbing. Hopefully, it will continue to get better. But, I still can't do screen, or sit up long enough to do much.

Headed back to bed.

Sunday, January 5, 2025

Best People Events of 2024

 In January, I often do some posts that give "best of" posts for the previous year. This is one I've never done before. And, it's really hard, if not wrong, to say that some people events are better than others. Yeah, I'm not a people person, but I do know that relationships are important.

My "trail family" is very important to me.

I got a picture of four adults together who all attended the same Girl Scout Camp.

I increased my "friendship level" with a number of people this year.

I got to visit with a number of friends and relatives I haven't seen in a long time.

But for the best, I'm going to select meeting the members of my extended family that are descendants of my half brother John.

John had three children: Fredrick (Ricky), Jo-Anne, and Susanne. I learned a few years ago that Ricky died. He had a daughter Erin, and she has twin girls Elizabeth and Ellery. I had not seen JoAnn and Susanne since I was about 15, and they were younger. How did re-meeting them go?

In January 2024, I visited Jo-Anne (Jo-Jo) in Texas. There was an immediate connection


In July, I went east to visit Susanne, and to meet Erin, Liz and Ellery. Again... we just picked up like we'd been friends forever. I don't know if there is anything to the idea of "blood is thicker..." but it was almost strange.


I've spent my whole life with very few relatives, and I "lost" this branch of family after highschool. I'm delighted to reconnect.

In other news... this was not a stellar day. I like to talk about quality events on this blog, but sometimes people think that I never have to deal with the icky stuff. Of course I do, but I choose not to focus on it. I had plans for the day. But I didn't get to sleep until after 4 am last night. I woke up at 9:30. Had a headache. Started to get ready to do what I wanted to do. Still headache. And it turned into a migraine. This is a bit odd. I usually get one about every 3-4 years. This is two in the last month. Anyway, I threw up and had to go back to bed and not look at screens or words.

I have better hopes for tomorrow. Things seem to be OK now.

See Loss and Gain

Wednesday, December 25, 2024

Food Coma

 We were ready for Christmas. This looks very impressive, but we actually cut back quite a bit on the gifts. However, we've always been masters at making something small look very festive.
christmas tree with gifts


We skipped a big breakfast today and just put out a veggie and cracker tray. The proof of pie is also in the picture.
vegetable tray and pie


The Om played Santa.
man handing out christmas gifts


We had ham, mashed potatoes, mixed vegs, the cranberry relish. I thought I was eating a reasonable amount, but ohhh... too full. Obviously, Josh was here, and Steve called for a nice chat.
Christmas dinner


Oh, the pie? You want to know what kind? We cut that for dinner. Cherry!
cherry pie


You can count on there being pie in my breakfast future too!

I had to lie on the heating pad for a little while this afternoon, but I'm pretty much back to full activity.

See Silent Night

Tuesday, December 24, 2024

Silent Night

 The day began with waffles. We really like them, but neither one of us needs all the carbs, right? So they are a big treat when we do make them.
waffles


Om took the nicest picture. I like the angle looking through to the tree. And see the two jars? Om likes regular syrup, but those are two I really like. One is dandelion syrup, and the other is elderberry. Yum. yum!
Christmas breakfast


Then we made cranberry relish for tomorrow. Om likes to help with that.
making cranberry relish


In the afternoon, I made another pie. Stay tuned.

Then the bell choir played in the Christmas Eve service. Lots of music, which I really like. Got recordings of the other two songs we played this year. I'll share one of them tonight. Silent Night, with congregational singing.



My back is tired, but it held up pretty well to increased activity.

Merry Christmas!

See Christmas Eve 2023

Thursday, November 28, 2024

Thanksgiving on the Table

 We have been trying to figure it out, and I'm pretty sure the last time we had a Thanksgiving dinner on the dining room table was in 2013. One year we went to Indiana to meet Loretta, we got invited to eat with someone else a few times. The years we were both working at the newspaper we were too tired to do anything ourselves. We went to community dinners a couple of times. Then there was Covid, and trailer prep for the hike, and the hike...

Anyway. Ta-da!
thanksgiving dinner


We had pork chops, and they turned out really yummy. Josh was supposed to join us, but he didn't show up. He has no minutes on his phone, so we couldn't call him. I was kicking myself that I hadn't simply said we'd pick him up. O well, he came an hour later. He had fallen asleep and didn't wake up. Then he didn't really want to do anything, so after a while he left. I refuse to get stressed about Josh. I guess he was happy, and he did get fed.

Here was my attempt to have a little fun. There is a veggie one in the link below.
fruit on a plate arranged like a turkey


And what about that pie? We managed to discipline ourselves to not eat some for breakfast. But we definitely enjoyed it for dessert. It's up to standard.
piece of pumpkin pie


Other than the cooking and meal prep, I did not do a thing all day. It was nice and relaxing.

See Thanksgiving 2013

Thursday, August 1, 2024

National Hug Day

  Last night Lizzie was telling us that a few years ago she had made up a holiday called National Hug Day, and it was August 1. Then we realized that today is August first!

One (or maybe more) round of hugs was had before we had to say goodbye. Ellery, Erin, me, Lizzie, Susanne. I'll be back. They aren't that much farther east than I come most years.
hugs


Other than that, it was a hot road day. I did manage to find a route I've never taken before, so that helped. I cut across the Catskills. Always hard to safely snap pix while driving, so this will have to do. Unknowingly caught a pedestrian sign, so that's cool.
Catskills


There will be a mini advanture tomorrow morning to break up the driving a bit, but I'm definitely on my way home.

See Generations