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Thursday, August 27, 2026

58 Years in the Wayback Machine

 Guess what I was doing 58 years ago today.

The boy on the right carrying the cake is Ron Rickner. I think the boy on the left is Dave Mendoza. The girl? Marie- always there for the important moments of my life since we were 12!
two young men carrying a wedding cake


Let me tell you a little bit about the wedding. The year was 1968. The world was changing big time. Young couples were beginning to have non-traditional weddings. We didn't go that far, but we didn't follow all of the constricting "rules."

I was always disappointing my mother, and the wedding was no exception. She was very unhappy with many of our decisions, but I was stubborn, and in many respects we had things our way. The end result was that neither of us was happy with the ceremony.

However, this looks pretty traditional. I mean... I had the white dress (maybe more on that potential fiasco another year), we had bridesmaids in blue dresses and groomsmen in fancy tuxedos. Om's sister Loretta sang "The Love of God." My dad "gave me away."
couple with a wedding cake


However, by that point in the afternoon, I'd managed to act "normal" and girlish for as long as I could possibly stand it. Please notice that I am cramming the cake all over Om's face. (I really couldn't help myself... everything was just too serious.)
feeding wedding cake to the groom


In retrospect, the actual ceremony means almost nothing to me. I probably should have let Mom plan everything the way she wanted it, and it would have made her happy, and 58 years later, I would not have cared at all.

The crowning "disaster" for Mom's day was that some of the teenagers (yes, Om was already attracting hoardes of teens) set off firecrackers. That part still makes me smile. As I recall, we got back at the instigator by setting off some at his wedding a few years later.

And in keeping with our tradition, we are not celebrating today. We are not even together, not even in the same state, another thing that has almost become traditional. If we'd been able to project how our lifetimes would play out we would have known that finding time for an anniversary in the summer months was going to be nearly impossible. We nearly couldn't fit a wedding into the summer of 1968 as it was. But we did, and here we are.

Well, Om is on a trip south. He was with Loretta just a few days ago. They are only a year apart in age and we are both sorry she lives so far away. (Picture is LORETTA and Om)
siblings


We'll celebrate some time when we are both in the same space. Meanwhile... here's to us. Just too stubborn to give up on each other.

See 55 Years

Sunday, August 16, 2026

All Wrapped Up

 I am safely home. Jean has another 1.5 hours to go.

This is always a long, long weekend, but we both did well. Today started off rainy and slow. That did clear up, but it got just windy enough to be chilly and make us take down some of the looser parts of our displays. Despite the slow start we both had pretty good sales for the third day.

Every vendor that we talked to was quite happy with their overall sales. That makes vendors want to come back another year. Jean and I both signed up for next year already, which wiil guarantee us the same booth spaces.

Just two weary but happy vendors.
friends


That's all for tonight. All my stuff is put away except my personal cooler, and I have nothing of any greater interest to report. Well, I'm kinda fired up about author things because I made good sales, but I have to get busy on other things for the next couple of weeks. Always how it seems to go.

See Blue...Bear...y

Saturday, August 8, 2026

Friends Old and New

 Today, I was selling books at the Onekama Days event.

As so often happens, this guy came up to me, but at least he didn't say, "remember me?" when I have no chance at figuring it out! This is Dale, whom I probably last saw in 1974ish when he was a scrawny teenager. He became an archaeologist, got his PhD, did both field work and teaching. and is now retired. Crazy!
friends


John Wemlinger, author, (and his wife Diane) are quickly becoming friends. After the all-day event, John was giving an author talk (also associated with the Onekama Days - they took my card, and I might be asked another year). It was pretty well attended, and he explained the real-life events that were the genesis of his most recent book. Excellent writer- any books by him are recommended.
author signing a book


There's another author talk tomorrow that I'd like to go to, but I really can't drive up there just for that. Hopefully, I'll be able to catch her another time.

Long day. Weather was perfect, but I didn't sell many books. I did pick up my prizes for completing the Onekama 30-day challenge. and ended up walking a little over a mile just doing that and getting to where the car had to be parked, etc.

I need to get a cold drink and chill out for the rest of the day.

Miles hiked in 2026: 291.9

See Arcadia Authors

Tuesday, July 14, 2026

My First GeoArt


This is going to be the topic of one of my columns this month- not sure which paper yet, but I'll give you a sneak peek.

Did you know there are some geocaches that are "multi-caches." They can be arranged to draw out a picture. Maybe. More on that in a minute.

So, who do I know that knows how to geocache, and is willing to drive terrible back roads, and would think it's all great fun? Sue! That's who!

Notice that she is holding a little tube that was hung in a tree. A geocache container can be pretty much anything that is waterproof. Quite a few of these were this size, but a few were bigger. There is a little log paper inside where you sign your Geochache Name and the date.
geocacher


You also record on the official Geocache app map if you found it or not. We eventually did find all of the sites, although we had to go back to 4 of them a second time. I'll talk more about this in the article, but what I didn't know is that the actual locations of the geocaches do not make a picture. It's just that there is a cache associated with each dot. Yellow means we found it, and you can see they are all yellow.
geoart map


The ones we could not find had the hint "PMD." Even though Sue is experienced with over 4000 cache finds, she did not know until we were able to look it up that meant "Pull Me Down." The cache is high in a young tree that had to be pulled over. See the painted bottle up there?


The last one of the day was way up high. I'm holding the tree down. Sue signed the log and we let it snap back up.
friends in woods


The name of this GeoArt is "Cider Apples" and it's in northeast Mason County. Each of the 33 locations is named for a different kind of apple. We started at 8 am and finished around 3 pm. It was 92° when we got done, but we were determined to find the four that we missed the first time.

Most interesting coincidence? 15 years ago Ellen and I went exploring and found Black Lake, a tiny puddle. We ate a picnic lunch in the freezing cold. Today, Sue and I came in from the other side- I didn't realize it was Black Lake until we were almost there. Today was totally the opposite of freezing. (Link below)
Black Lake


Nothing else happened today, but I am all set to write my columns for this month.

P.S. Doing 33 geocaches in one day is a lot.

See Brrr- Lunch at Black Lake

Sunday, July 12, 2026

Gifts from Bud


One of the guys who stayed here last weekend was Bud. We stayed in touch with him and his family even after they all moved away. We went to North Carolina to visit them and Bud took us rapelling.
friends


But then Bud got married and moved to the Pactific Northwest. Actually, Om got to visit him a couple of times, but I hadn't seen him for probably 45 years. He brought me three gifts! First of all, I did not know that we have a mutual love of gardening, and particularly for playing with succulents. He makes these planters out of old records and then fills them with random goodies. (He also has a greenhouse and I am trying not to be jealous.) They are not hardy, but can stay outside for the summer. His wife Annie painted the little rock for me.
succulent planter


He also brought me this garden decoration. Since it's mostly white, it may end up in the Moon Garden. We'll see.
garden decoration with skis


But probably the most meaningful is that he gave me one of his carved birds. These are made from a single block of wood. (Trail friend Glen also makes them- I've showed you some of his.)
carved fan bird


I tried to get a lot done today. Did fairly well although it got pretty hot this afternoon. Edited, shopped (but forgot to take the pop cans, so they are still in the middle of the floor :/ ), worked in the Moon Garden, but didn't get as much done as I had hoped. Should go do some more now that it's cooler, but the nasty gnats are out, so I'm probably just going to give up and take a shower. Gave one of the gardens a long drink. I'm watering things in the Moon Garden pretty much every day until they get established. Took a road walk in the morning before it got too hot.

Miles walked in 2026: 205.5. Just a couple of road miles.

See 50 Year Reunion

Sunday, July 5, 2026

2026-1976 = 50, Yes 50 Years


Today was a reunion.
50th reunion cake


A few of you have known me long enough to know that about 3 lifetimes ago, Omer led bicycle trips for young people in the summer.
row of 10 speed bicycles


In 1976, at the 200th Anniversary of the USA, we put together a group of 35 guys, all high school age, to ride across the country, Washington state to Delaware, Pacific to Atlantic Ocean.
group of kids with matching shirts


There were 35 riders, I drove the bus you can see above (support vehicle, kitchen, repair shop, etc.) Baby Steve (not quite 2) was a "bus buddy." Two other females went: the mother of one of the riders who was also a nurse, and a high-school girl. They helped in the bus and helped care for Steve.

A couple of the guys started planning a 50th reunion about a year ago. Today, 17 of the participants and a lot of family members gathered. This is just those who were actually on the trip.
group photo


Lots of memorabilia was brought to display, including some original shirts and jackets. Ed, the primary organizer, wrote to a number of the towns we went through and got them to send a letter celebrating the trip. Albums of photos, patches, two media shows made from photos were shown, story telling, jokes, singing and prayer. Oh, yes, and food!
food line


I didn't get a lot of good pictures. The lighting was bad and people were moving a lot, but for example, here is one of the jokes. So, Ed is in the center, and he is awarding boxes of pancake mix to the winners of the popular annual pancake-eating contest from that trip. Ed humbly admitted that he thought he had won with a total of 50 pancakes. But, no, Rick (on the left) ate 55, and Rudy (on the right) managed 48.
three people receiving awards


Many of the stories were more serious, heartwarming, or spiritual in nature. Lifelong friendships were formed on that trip for many of these guys. A few of the participants have died.

For the conclusion, Ed had brought a flag that actually flew over Arlington Cemetery. We all stood around it and sang "God Bless America." Then another of the guys closed in prayer.
people holding a flag


There were a lot of damp eyes and hard-slapped shoulders and hugs.

And that's all for today. I'm still processing the event. There are a few of the families we've stayed in touch with (You may notice good friends Doug and Cathy in the picture, and bus-helper Wendy is the daughter of my good friend Betty), but some of the ones who came today we haven't seen for those 50 years.

See Another Trip in the Way-Back Machine

Friday, July 3, 2026

250- Kind of a Big Deal!


I am aware that some folks are having a hard time celebrating the 250th Anniversary of the USA with all the tension in the political climate. However, I think it's a big deal. And I can say with a great deal of certainty that I won't be around for the 300th, so I'm making an effort to be a bit more celebratory than I often am on holidays.

The church that's near us had a fireworks display on Wednesday night. I'm not a big fan of fireworks. But I went out and watched some of theirs.
fireworks


Today, White Pine Village had a day that was free to the public. This is a local living history musuem that has all buildings of local historical significance that have been moved to the site. It's really well done, with quite a lot of buildings now, but I hadn't seen it in a long time because it's also a bit pricey.

The entire village is built around this house, which is the first frame house built in the county in 1849. And it was in this location. All the other buildings were moved to join it. This was also used as the county's first courthouse, jail and general store.
Burr Caswell House


I spent a bit over two hours there. A lot has been added since my last visit, and it was excellent. They were also giving away free ice cream! West Shore Bank, locally owned, sponsored the free day, and House of Flavors donated the ice cream.

I didn't show you any pix from the Patriotic Concert on Sunday, but I'll show you one now (that was taken Sunday) because the choir was also at the village today and sang their selections.
patriotic concert


This is a lady dipping candles. The wiggly ones on the right are recently begun, and the ones on the left and the one she is dipping are nearly done.
dipping candles


I managed to catch one of the sawmill demonstrations. Of course, a huge part of the local history is tied up with logging and mills.
sawmill


One of the local industries that operated into the last part of the 20th Century was Star Watch Case. And here is where I learned something new. I already knew what a pantograph is, and you probably do too if you've done any wood routing, or perhaps even some experimental kinds of art. It's basically a jointed quadrilateral frame that you can use to trace a design from one surface to another and make it a different size.

So, I did not know that this is how they made those detailed and fancy engravings on gold watch cases. The large flat disk on the left is a metal plate which has the design cut into it. Of course, it is large enough that you can see the lines. The watch case is at the other side of the pantograph. When the design is traced on the big disk, it is reproduced on the scale of the case at the other side. It's sort of like how micro-robotic hands work-- where you move your own hand a couple of inches, and the robot hand moves only a tiny increment.
pantograph


And to end the day, David came to visit. Yes, the David that lives in Philadelphia. As a reminder, his wife is originally from Grand Rapids, so he tries to pop up here when they make the trip to Michigan. And the summer trip is even closer, since they all stay in a cottage only about 35 minutes from me!
friends


The day started with a Zoom call, but it mostly improved after that. It was a good meeting, but I just am not a fan of virtual meetings. I'm glad I made the effort to get over to White Pine Village (and I saw a LOT of people I know). David helped me fix a computer thing, and also to clean the vacuum filter. I don't expect him to work when he shows up here, but it just sort of happened. And if someone mentions a computer problem around Dave he can hardly keep from fixing it! Then he showed me pictures from a recent trip he and Rachel took to London.

My tomorrow guests will not be here till evening, so I still have a little time to do the last bit of cleaning that is going to happen.

See Big Boy

Saturday, June 20, 2026

Swapping Plants with Betsy


Betsy asked if she could stop by because she had some plants for me.


She wasn't kidding! She brought me a whole tray of plants, with 13 different things in it! And they've been cared for so they are as nicely established as anything from a nursery. Some are for the rock garden, and some for other places.
two women and a flat of plants


I did get three of them planted. It takes a hot minute to figure out where I want new plants to be.

This is Sedum ternatum, Woodland Sedum. It also grows wild and rambly in the woods, although I can't honestly say I've ever found it in the woods. I'm not sure that it likes full sun. I guess I'll find out. Supposedly it tolerates it, but it may not be as sprawling and drape as well as if it had some shade. It will have white flowers, and will contrast nicely in any season with the 'Firecracker' Sedum- the purple to its left.

Anyway, I'm trying it here where the purple rock cress was. That is barely alive. Not sure why- it should be very happy where I put it. Anyway, it's now in a pot and will hopefully recover.
sedum ternatum


She gave me two Sempervivums that I did not have. I'd been thinking I needed something like these for the spaces between logs at the top of the garden.

This one is 'Chocolate Kiss.'
Sempervivum chocolate kiss


And this is 'Blue Boy.'
sempervivum blue boy


There is some other plant news on the horizon too, but this is certainly enough for one day.

In other news: I edited, I got groceries. Then Betsy came. She already has most of the things I have available to share, but I did send her home with a few plants. It's fun to have a friend who likes the variety of plants as much as I do!

And, you know, I'm contemplating another garden space in my head.

See Betsy's Rock Garden

Thursday, June 4, 2026

Look Where I Am!


It's been WAY too long since I've had a chance to see Ester!
friends


And see the white flowers behind us? New plant for me, and actually a new plant fact that I had no idea about. This is Clematis recta, a shrubby clematis that is not a climbing vine. I didn't even know there was such a thing.
clematis recta


Here is a cluster of the flowers, closer. It has a lovely sweet scent. It's a garden plant, not native.
clematis recta


We went out to eat at Ester's favorite restaurant. It's way out in the country, but it has a pretty good clientele because of the quality and the atmosphere. Here's our food. I had Hawaiian chicken and Ester had sirloin.
fancy dinner


They have this landscaped pond with little waterfalls outside the windows. I've showed you this before. But the other times we've been have been earlier in the year, so not quite as pretty as today.
landscaped pond


There are purple martin houses and hummingbird feeders. Also, an oriole came in to get a snack while we were there.
hummingbird


I'm going a little bit farther south tomorrow. Stay tuned. A very fun day. It's been about 5 years since we've managed to get together.

See Not a Day Over 70